The course of the exercise:
1 card VO: We ask the parent to find a card that reflects his relationship with the child.
We discuss what kind of relationship, what is their difficulty.
2 card VS: We ask the parent to draw another card to the blind, and tell her about the difficulties in relations with the parents the child could tell (that is, the difficulties of relations with the parents through the eyes of the child)
3 card VO: What am I in this relationship with the child. My qualities and my reactions to it?
4 BC card: What influences the fact that I am in a relationship with a child?
5 card VO: How do I see, perceive my child in our relationship?
6 sun card: What influences the fact that I see this as my child?
7 sun card: What parent does my child see me?
8 BC card: What qualities of my child can I rely on to improve our relationship?
9 card (optional VO or VS): What kind of relationship with my child would be optimal for us (that is, in which it would be comfortable for both the parent and the child)?
10 card VS: What I am willing to donate to improve relations?
11 - 13 sun maps: What do I need to do in order to achieve an optimal relationship?
- What was the most important for you in our work?
- What was the discovery for you?
- Are you ready to act in your relationship in a new way?
Author of the exercise: Maria Bogdanova.